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12-18-2011 04:52 AM  5 years agoPost 1
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I had an argument with my Mother, she told me I had no "right" to judge someone,,,, I guess I just don't understand that ???

don't I have the right to judge someone to determine if they should be around my young children ??

I mean I am NOT judging if this prison should be dead or alive,
I'm just judging (as I said) if I should trust him to be around my kids, wife and home..

to add,, if I don't have that right, who is it that took that right away from me ???

how do you feel about this ?????

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12-18-2011 05:13 AM  5 years agoPost 2
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12-18-2011 05:15 AM  5 years agoPost 3
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I feel the same way as your mother, we have no right to judge' period
that's the job of the almighty , "but" if you think that someone isn't right for your family. Then you can tell that person hey you are this that and that and i don't want you around my family
plain and simple it's a sin to judge what you can't make

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12-18-2011 05:20 AM  5 years agoPost 4
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sorry, edited,,,

"" "but" if you think that someone isn't right for your family""

so that's not a form of judgment ?? but I think it is !!

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12-18-2011 11:14 AM  5 years agoPost 5
rcaircraftnut

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I dont think it's judging, its more being a responsible parent.

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12-18-2011 11:59 AM  5 years agoPost 6
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Everyone judges everyone else
I dont know how people can claim they dont judge other people
a person has to decide if another person is a (good/bad) person
if you want to hang with them, if there a good or bad influence on your kids.
There are a lot of people that are out there that are nothing but a p.o.s.

and we have to weed them out of our lives
the only way to do this is to judge them

ageing is manditory maturity is optional

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12-18-2011 12:01 PM  5 years ago •• Post 7 ••
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Everyone does it and you have the right to say who is around your children, plain and simple. Others don't have to like it, it's not their choice. Aren't they judging you by saying, One shouldn't judge others?

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12-18-2011 12:50 PM  5 years agoPost 8
Steff Giguere

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I think you have every right to DECIDE who could be around your kids and who can't. Is this a form of judging? who cares, just do it.

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12-18-2011 01:41 PM  5 years agoPost 9
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You have the right to decide who is around your kids or not period. Your mother should stop judging your decisions.

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12-18-2011 02:02 PM  5 years agoPost 10
rudyy

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I would assume that guy is a complete stranger. If u do not feel comfortable, then go ahead and tell that guy to leave your family alone.

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12-18-2011 03:35 PM  5 years agoPost 11
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don't I have the right to judge someone to determine if they should be around my young children ??
you better believe it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

i have seen a few kids try to get close to my daughter for one thing and one thing only. and if you could see this kid with his michael jackson afro and his pants down to his fat ass, and he has told this other girl all he wants to do is **** my daughter................judging is a mild word for this piece of garbage!

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12-18-2011 04:52 PM  5 years agoPost 12
mr dan

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You do as you see safe for your familly. Everyone judges someone , the biggest folks who judge are the religious ones (clueless)
if you have a gut feeling than someone should not be around your children or wife, then act on it! You never want to be in the position where you will be saying to yourself .. "I should have prevented that, this is my fault!"
When it comes to my children, I'd tell the freakn pope, jesus and my mother to back the f#@k up!

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12-18-2011 07:44 PM  5 years agoPost 13
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You have the right to take care of your family. To make them feel safe.

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12-18-2011 11:28 PM  5 years agoPost 14
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You can judge if you want to, it has nothing to do with rights. It's what you are judging them on is what matters. Rushing to judge and acting on it is one of the most common mistakes people make. Really all you can do is voice your concerns. What happens next is on whoever you voice your concerns to. It has been my experience when people tell you you don't have the "right", deep down they know you are in fact right and don't want to hear their judgement is flawed.

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12-18-2011 11:44 PM  5 years agoPost 15
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thanks guys, I knew most of you would agree with me, but I just had to ask,

my kids are older now/today 20 & 22, the discussion with my mom was about a guy that wants to date my daughter, my mom told me I can't judge him, I asked why and she told me "I have no right to",, at that point I turned the discussion to when my kids were younger and about a guy that lived in the neighborhood and how he was in and out of jail and how I made sure he was never around my kids, again she told me "I had no right to judge this guy too",,
well I knew I was right but I just could not understand (and it upset me) how she could tell me that knowing how many times the guy had been in jail

Jim
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